Confessing to your crush isn’t exactly something that normal people would jump at instantly. A crush confession would normally entail countless hours of weighing the pros and cons of such a momentous decision, hyperventilating at the thought of a rejection, mapping out all the possible results, and ending up with a non-confession.
The possibility of a rejection is probably one of the main reasons why confessing your feelings to your crush is definitely a no-no to a lot of people. But what about all the other reasons that prove that it’s actually a pretty good idea?
Twitter user @LalakengLindsay started a thread of tweets on why we shouldn’t be shy of confessing our feelings to our crushes. The said thread has already been retweeted more than 1,500 times!
Bakit di ka dapat mahiyang umamin kay crush, a thread
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 28, 2017
He actually has more than 25 reasons, and here are a few of them:
1. There is a chance may gusto din siya. Or not.
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 28, 2017
Think of the possibilities! But it’s best to think of the better ones.
2. Kung natatakot kang mawala ang pagkakaibigan, say it in a way na friendly.
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 28, 2017
The possibility of the friendzone is honestly better than nothing at all.
3. Matutuwa siya. Masaya ang feeling na may nagkakacrush sayo, tapos mej magiincrease ang chance na magustuhan ka niya.
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 28, 2017
At least one of you will be happy.
3. Mauunahan ka ng iba. Bes, if yummy si crush may kakompetensiya. Keep up tayo ha?
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 28, 2017
Keep up, friend!
5. Umamin ka hangga't di mo pa mahal. Paan OK kapag sa sobrang tagal mong di umamin nahulog ka na? Edi wow masasaktan af ka kapag nireject
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 28, 2017
Better do it now that prolong your agony!
16. Makikita niya confidence mo sa pag amin. And
CONFIDENCE is the new SEXY.
turn on kaya ang confidence
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 28, 2017
Confidence is key!
21. May chance na alam ng crush mo na crush mo siya. Hinihintay niya na lang ang confirmation dahil ayaw mapagkamalang feelingera/o
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 29, 2017
Take that chance!
22. Life goes on. Di titigil ang mundo kapag umamin ka kay crush.
— Sephyyyyyy DeLuxe (@verysephy) May 29, 2017
Life will go on!
@LalakengLindsay shares with WhenInManila.com that he preaches to himself, and of course, he follows his own advice. He says that rejections will always be a possibility, but a blooming relationship is possible as well.
If you do decide to confess, perhaps having a backup plan to fall back on would also be handy.
(READ: LOOK: This Flawless Backup Plan Will Let You Confess Your Feelings To Your Crush Fearlessly)
Well, there you have it. Happy confessing! 😉
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