BINI Aiah Arceta gets candid about love and life as she shares her thoughts on her ideal partner and the joy of singlehood.
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During her recent Q&A session on X, a netizen asked her about her standards for a future partner.
“What’s your standard pagdating sa future partner mo? (What’s your standard when it comes to your future partner?)” the question read.
Aiah answered the question in a lengthy response, reiterating that the most important quality she looks for in an ideal partner isn’t just being kind to her but to everyone, including children, the elderly, dogs, and strangers.
“Yung hindi lang mabait sa akin but in general mabait siya sa lahat kasi yung puso niya ay totoong kabaitan lang yung laman. Yung tipong mga bata, matanda, parents, aso, or sino man yan ay naturally nagga-gravitate [yung kindness] sa kanya kasi ang calming at peaceful ng aura niya (Someone who is not just kind to me but is generally kind to everyone because their heart is truly filled with kindness. Whether it’s children, adults, parents, dogs, or anyone else, kindness naturally gravitates to him because of his calming and peaceful aura),” she said.
However, the BINI member stressed that she’s not currently in the phase of seeking a romantic relationship, reflecting that her solo travels and independent pursuits have made her realize that it’s okay to be on her own.
“I am happy on my own and I can create happiness on my own. And to be honest, okay lang din sakin in life na ako lang kahit tumanda man ako kasi ang peaceful din naman pala pag ikaw lang mag isa (it’s okay for me to be alone in life even if I get old because it’s peaceful when you’re alone),” she continued.
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Aiah also mentioned that she doesn’t feel lonely being single and that finding a partner doesn’t pressure her at all.
“I don’t feel lonely, instead I feel free just being in my own happy bubble. So finding a future partner doesn’t pressure me at all. If meron in the future, thank you, Lord. If wala, thank you Lord din haha (If there is someone in the future, thank you, Lord. If not, thank you, Lord, as well),” she added.
The rapper-singer then shared that she hopes to be with someone in the future who’s a “great person” and can bring more peace to her life.
“Basta sabi ko sa sarili ko na if I am gonna be with someone in the future, yun na yun (I told myself that if I am gonna be with someone in the future, that’s it). Hopefully, someone who’s such a great person, and can bring more peace to my life. It’s either that or I just stick to my own peace AKA myself in which I am already happy.”
She concluded her response by expressing her heartfelt gratitude for being a member of BINI and emphasizing that she’s solely focusing on her career.
“Anyways, BINI is life and I am grateful that the BINI life is my life right now so yan muna focus ko (that’s my focus for now),” she beamed.
Fans, fondly known as BLOOMS, praised Aiah for prioritizing her happiness and peace, with many women relating to her perspective.
Yung hindi lang mabait sa akin but in general mabait sya sa lahat kase yung puso nya ay totoong kabaitan lang yung laman. Yung tipong mga bata, matanda, parents, aso, or sino man yan ay naturally nag ggravitate sa kanya kase ang calming at peaceful ng aura nya.
But for now, I am…
— Aiah Arceta (@bini_aiah) December 15, 2024
Aiah is BINI’s visual, main rapper, and sub-vocalist. In October, she launched her advocacy project called “Aiahdvocacy,” where she helps and supports various communities during the Ber month season.
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